Ann Margret
Ann Margret and Her Gentlemen!
Text forwarded by D&S Grogan and Bob Edwards
Richard, my husband, never really talked a lot about his time in Viet Nam other
than he had been shot by a sniper. However, he had a rather grainy, 8X10
black & white photo he had taken at a USO show of Ann Margaret with Bob Hope
in the background that was one of his treasures.
A few years ago, Ann Margret was doing a book signing at a local bookstore.
Richard wanted to see if
he could get her to sign the treasured photo so he arrived at the
book-store at 12 o'clock for the 7:30 signing. When I got there after
work, the line went all the way around the bookstore, circled the parking
lot, and disappeared behind a parking garage.
Before her appearance, bookstore employees announced that she would sign only
her book, and no memorabilia would be permitted. Richard was
disappointed, but wanted to show her the photo and let her know how much those
shows meant to lonely GI's so far from home.
Ann Margaret came out looking as beautiful as ever and, as 2nd in line, it was
soon Richard's turn. He presented the book for her signature and then took
out the photo with many shouts from employees that she would not sign it. Richard
said, "I understand. I just wanted her to see it".
She took one look at the photo, tears welled up in her eyes and she said,
"This is one of my gentlemen from Viet Nam and I most certainly will sign
his photo. I know what these men did for their country and I always have time
for "my gentlemen". With that, she pulled Richard across the
table and planted a big kiss on him. She then made quite a "to
do" about the bravery of the young men she met over the years, how much she
admired them, and how much she appreciated them. There weren't
too many dry eyes among those close enough to hear.
She then posed for pictures and acted as if he was the only one there.
Later at dinner, Richard was very quiet. When I asked if he'd like to talk
about it, my big strong husband broke down in tears. "That's the
first time anyone ever thanked me for my time in the Army", he said.
Richard, like many others, came home to people who spit on him and shouted ugly
things at him. That night was a turning point for him. He walked a
little straighter and, for the first time in years, was proud to have been a
Vet. I'll never forget Ann Margaret for her graciousness and how much that
small act of kindness meant to my husband.
I now make it a point to say 'Thank You' to every person I come
across who served in our Armed Forces. Freedom does not come cheap and
I am grateful for all those who have served their country. If you'd
like to pass on this story, feel free to do so. Perhaps it will help
others to become aware of how important it is to acknowledge the
contribution our service people make.
I hope this makes it's way to
Jane Fonda!
God Bless Our Armed
Forces!